Sibling Rivalry

Sibling rivalry has been around since the beginning of time.  Children want to be noticed and heard and sometimes  (often) there is one child that makes the most noise and gets the most attention.  Also, it's pretty normal to favor one child over another at times.  The polite, smart, and pretty child is much easier than the struggling, loud, sloppy child who ignores you or gives you attitude.  There is very little we can do about how the rest of the world treats our children out there.  Life is not fair ... one child may very well be lucky and successful, and another can't seem to get a break.  It's our job as parents to make each child feel valued and loved for the special gifts they have.  Just as important, it's our job to teach them to value each other. Are you saying what you love about each other at family meetings (or any time) ?  Have you been encouraging and supportive?  Do you recognize and praise accomplishments? Are you teaching your children to be fair and compassionate by your example?  Brothers and sisters have a very special bond.  By teaching your children to love and value each other, you are paving the way for strong, loving relationships throughout the generations. They will take your example and teach their children, nieces, nephews, etc.  This is among the most important things we leave our children when we are gone...each other.    If you, or someone you know, is dealing with this issue, I can help give you peace in your home.  Contact me!